boy juggling

Soooo, I met online guy of note #2. He needs a better name. Cosmo. The man is from Tunisia, South of Sicily in Africa. It is a French colony. He has lived in Rome and the US. He is the only one I know who knows 4 languages.

He is very attentive and a little touchy-feely. Hand touching, arm, shoulder. I kissed on the first date, again. I was wearing heels and he waited for me to step off the curb so I seemed shorter.

I was a little worried when he was late. He got lost. his directions were bad. I waited for him for a while, went to the house, and finally met him at Starbucks. We had 10 minutes before they closed. When they closed, I suggested an Italian soda at Il Paradisio. He followed me there. We talked for about 3 hours. We walked along the street to look in a gallery window and back to the car. We kissed goodnight.

He is slightly feminine in affect, but that is just cultural. I kind of like his way of being. He is cute in person and looks younger than his pictures. I got a kiss goodnight. He is neat. He is likely the cutest boy I have ever dated.

Dating 2 boys ensures you are center-centered, not stupid, flitty some other boy-centered. While I was driving to Il Paradisio with Cosmo in tow, I called Vichysoisse (being followed by a beautiful man makes me feel gutsy.) I told him I am dying to hear his Smurfette joke. (He stopped short of telling a Smurfette joke/story on our first date.) He said it is dirty and is much better in person. He went on to invite me to dinner Tuesday. Before I knew it I was taking wine. WTF? No weekend date? Why do I still like him? My therapist said that what I found online was just a snapshot and I could wait to find it out on my own from him. Why do I like Vichysoisse? Nuts! Is there no honor whatsoever in making out with him? A little? Practice? ...HSV?

Cosmo was so upfront and said he wants to get together and watch a movie. Was I just invited to his house? Wearing the scarlet "S" (slut) - but just because I am a flirty slut aspiring to be a makeout slut. I really hope Cosmo is not looking to get laid.